Tuesday, October 26, 2010

community, church life, and marriage

About the church and marriage painting project; I myself have been married for a very, very long time.  Reflecting on the subject within the worship theme, the image of love and marriage could be represented by the larger community that nourishes and upholds a married couple.
The climbing and twining vine that is much stronger than each individual growing stem represents to me a more true visual of what happens in a strong Christian marriage.

As I reflected on marriage and life in the church the image of that climbing vine which is now embracing my flower garden became the compelling visual metaphor. It is beautiful, and it is strong, (just try pulling it out.)
Chains do not hold a marriage together.  It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years.  ~Simone Signoret  


Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction.  ~Antoine de Saint-Exup√©ry, Wind, Sand and Stars, 1939, translated from French by Lewis Galanti√®re 




Nobody has ever before asked the nuclear family to live all by itself in a box the way we do.  With no relatives, no support, we've put it in an impossible situation.  ~Margaret Mead 




You can kiss your family and friends good-bye and put miles between you, but at the same time you carry them with you in your heart, your mind, your stomach, because you do not just live in a world but a world lives in you.  ~Frederick Buechner








5 comments:

At A Hen's Pace said...

Wow, beautiful! I love morning glories. What a wonderful image.

Beth B said...

What an extraordinary assemblage of images, Jan--and yours is so rich! Thank you for sharing it, and the quotations as well.

gatheringwonder said...

beautifully captured

Lisa <> said...

Hi Janice,
Thank you for your reflections on marriage, including the powerful visual of the vine. May I have permission to post your picture on my blog post about marriage with a reference to your blog post? - Lisa <><

janice skivington said...

Hi Lisa,
Yes, I am glad that you asked for permission. Would you please be sure to mention my name and make sure that a link to visit my website and blog are included. Also send me another email with a link to your blog.
And tell me, please, how did you find my post and image on the internet?
Janice